I've had a little bit of a personal set back of late that has me really confused and upset and questioning a lot of things. I'm really at a bit of a loss right now as to where I should be going to from here. I'm ask all you lovely ladies out there to give me a bit of advice right now on how to put myself back together.
8 inspirational thoughts:
Not knowing what this is all about, my advice is to take your time to figure things out.
Can you go on a mini holiday or be alone somewhere for a while? I often find that getting some distance and silence helps when I don't know what to do.
Also, don't rush for answers, sometimes they need time. I love this quote:
“Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart & to try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don’t search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. & the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer.”
(Rainer Maria Rilke, as translated by Stephen Mitchell)
I wish you the best of luck with figuring things out, and I hope that you are okay! :)
Oh no: I hope everything works out for the best. Maybe you need a little break from everything you're doing right now just to clear your head and think things through.
What's wrong dear Ella? I would love to help you in any way, let me know what I can do for you!
I have to agree with Marthe
My advice is this: take as much time as you need. Wallow. Sit around and stare. Write about it. Relax, don't stress, if you don't want to think about it, don't! Do whatever. After a day or two, pull yourself back up, give yourself a firm kick in the behind, and get back on the bike, so to speak. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being stagnant about whatever is happening (as long as it doesn't happen for too long!) And once you're ready, start over again or move on. There is no way for me to be able to explain when you'll "be ready" - only you know that.
<3 Michelle // Locked Out
I agree with all these ladies here: take your time, cry, eat sweets under a blanket while watching your favorite movie, go to the gym and kick the crap out of a punching bag, see your friends, write, write, write.
If you want to tell your problem to someone who's never met you, do e-mail me and we can chat if you need it. :) Feel better!
I agree with the others: give yourself perspective by giving yourself time to relax, to feel a less distressed so that you can make better decisions.
Time is really important. Give yourself two days to sit around, eat ice cream, watch bad cheerleading movies, cry, eat chocolate, sleep, and then move on. Sometimes you really need that time to mope.
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